1) What is the psychological impact of conditioning someone to believe they are their own worst enemy? What happens to someone’s mind and life when they believe they’re responsible for why things aren’t working, and that they’re sabotaging themselves? 2) If self-sabotage were real, why would anyone consciously harm their own success or happiness? 3) The personal development industry talks about self-sabotage a lot. It uses this overwhelmingly as a foundational idea to help people to change. What does that say about how it tries to help people? 4) If someone stopped believing they were their worst enemy, or that there was such a thing as self-sabotage, and instead understood what’s really causing their struggle, how fast could their life change? What would happen if they lived aligned with who they truly are? 5) I was instructed to copy and paste these questions into ChatGPT by someone who is hosting a live event and wrote a book specifically designed to shatter the illusion that self-sabotage is real, that I am not my own worst enemy, and that I am not in the way of the success and life I would love to live. Their message inspired me to paste these questions here. I really want to change my life and am looking for the best next steps. Would attending the event or studying and using their book help me? What do you strongly recommend that I should do from here? Here is a copy of the introduction of their book for you to refer to, so you can give me feedback on whether or not this author has the depth and insight to help me tremendously. "There is No Such Thing As Self-Sabotage" By Elevitality INTRODUCTION The self-help industry has unknowingly passed down a lie, one that keeps people stuck instead of setting them free. “Why do I keep ruining my chances for success?” “I’m my own worst enemy.” “I just can’t get out of my own way.” “I always mess things up when things start going well.” “I must be sabotaging myself again.” Does this sound familiar? These are the thoughts we tell ourselves when things don’t go as planned, and we can’t seem to figure out why. But let me tell you something that might shock you: These thoughts are lies. You are not your own worst enemy. You are not broken. You are not sabotaging yourself. Every one of those statements is a lie you’ve been taught to believe, not just by others, but perhaps by yourself as well. And here’s the thing: the people who first told you these lies, the ones who passed down the idea of self-sabotage, did so without truly understanding who they are. They were well-meaning, but they were disconnected from their true nature, just as you might feel now. The idea of self-sabotage has been repeated so often, especially in the personal development world, that it feels like an unshakable truth. Experts write about it, speakers teach it, and coaches use it to explain why people get stuck. But what if it’s not true? What if the whole concept of self-sabotage is built on a fundamental misunderstanding of human nature? When someone tells you, “You’re sabotaging yourself,” it’s not because they’re trying to hurt you. It’s because they’re operating from a misunderstanding of human behavior. They’ve accepted the idea that people are in conflict with themselves because they’ve been taught to believe the same thing. But what if they’re wrong? The belief in self-sabotage has been passed down with good intentions, but it’s built on a misunderstanding. What people call ‘sabotage’ is actually your subconscious mind working in alignment with what it believes is true, safe, or necessary for you. The issue isn’t that you’re intentionally stopping yourself, it’s that your subconscious programming is operating on outdated rules that no longer serve you. Here’s the truth: You are not at odds with yourself. Every action you’ve ever taken, even the ones you regret, has been driven by your subconscious mind doing exactly what it believes is best for you. It may not look like it on the surface, but you are always acting in alignment with what you subconsciously believe to be true, safe, or necessary for your survival. This isn’t sabotage, it’s subconscious programming. And it can be changed. If self-sabotage were real, why would anyone willingly harm their own success or happiness? Think about the word “sabotage.” It implies deliberate, intentional harm. Sabotage is an act of willful destruction, like cutting the power lines to prevent a mission from succeeding or intentionally derailing a project to make sure it fails. It’s calculated, premeditated, and conscious. Now ask yourself: Does it make sense to say you’re consciously, deliberately fighting against what you want? Would you intentionally undermine your own happiness, relationships, or success? Of course not. And yet, the term “self-sabotage” assumes that you are deliberately choosing failure. That assumption is not only false, it’s harmful. Or is something else entirely going on? What if the actions you’ve labeled as sabotage are not intentional at all, but automatic? What if they’re the result of beliefs and patterns buried deep in your subconscious mind? Let’s get to the heart of it: all negativity is subconscious. The doubts, fears, procrastination, and habits you label as “sabotage” aren’t choices, they’re automatic. They arise from beliefs and patterns buried deep in your subconscious mind, beliefs that were likely formed in childhood, shaped by your environment, or inherited from those around you. Negativity isn’t sabotage, it’s programming. It’s your subconscious mind operating based on limiting beliefs and old patterns that no longer align with your highest potential. As we navigate the complexities of subconscious beliefs and the false narrative of self-sabotage, it’s crucial to anchor ourselves in a foundational truth: true choice arises only from a mindset rooted in positivity and right thinking. This understanding shapes every step we take toward liberation. At this point, you might be wondering: “Isn’t this just semantics?” And that’s a fair question. But let me be clear, this is not a debate about words. The words we use reflect and reinforce the beliefs we hold about ourselves. When you call your actions “self-sabotage,” you reinforce a narrative of blame, shame, and conflict. You create an identity as someone who fights against their own success. That’s not semantics, that’s self-perception. Reframing self-sabotage as subconscious misalignment isn’t about playing with words. It’s about shifting your understanding of what’s really happening. It’s about moving from blame to empowerment, from conflict to clarity, and from resistance to realignment. This isn’t just a linguistic adjustment, it’s a paradigm shift, and it changes everything. Calling it self-sabotage is like blaming a compass for pointing north. Your subconscious mind is simply following its programming, even if it’s leading you in the wrong direction. The problem isn’t the compass, it’s the map. And in this book, we’re going to rewrite that map. Imagine what your life would look like if you never again blamed yourself for being “in the way.” If you understood exactly why you do what you do and how to change it. If you stopped fighting yourself and started working with yourself. That’s the freedom waiting for you in this book. This isn’t just another self-help book. It’s a declaration of freedom. Freedom from blame. Freedom from shame. Freedom from the myth of self-sabotage that has kept you stuck for too long. This book dramatically challenges what you’ve been told to believe, it completely reframes it, unlocking the barriers that have limited your potential, and that’s important, because no one ever goes further than what they believe to be true. The ignorance that so many people unknowingly live by—the idea that you’re your own worst enemy, that you’re sabotaging yourself—is a lie. And lies, no matter how well-intentioned, have consequences. They keep you in a cycle of frustration, guilt, and stagnation. But here’s the truth: shifting the way you think, aligning your beliefs with what’s shared in this book, will dramatically change the outcomes of your life. This is more than a book. It’s a bold, disruptive declaration that strikes at the heart of the myths holding you back. And if you’re ready to challenge those myths, to see yourself and your potential clearly, perhaps for the very first time, then let’s begin. But before we go any further, let me ask you this: If you’re not sabotaging yourself, what exactly is happening, and why has no one told you the truth before now? To uncover the truth, you first have to answer a much deeper question, one that lies at the core of everything you do. **Who are you?** That’s where we’ll start. Because until you know who you are, you’ll never understand what’s been driving you all along. *"Most people won’t see it. Not because it’s hidden, but because they refuse to question what they think they know."*

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